5 things to Take Control of your life

Sloth
3 min readMay 15, 2023

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life isn't about waiting for the storms to pass it's about how to dance in the rain — Vivian Greene

The way of living life has changed a lot in recent past years due to this fast-changing world and just to cope with it takes a lot of energy and time. the things we are doing right now is not in our control we are so influenced by our surrounding and social media that we forget what our purpose in life is and what it is that we want to achieve. The last 2 years of my life have not been very pleasant, dealing with lots of personal problems made me realize that having a good daily routine and total control of your life is so important in both your personal and professional growth. After changing lots of things and beating myself around trying different things that If this could work out and can improve my lifestyle and bring that satisfaction in life I discover these basic things that you can do without changing a lot of things in your like

  1. Organized your surrounding

Just get up and clean it as soon as possible don't look at messy things stop looking at anything messy and unorganized. what it does is sends messages to your unconscious to be organized to move in a flow in a proper manner cause that is how things are just look at nature so in a flow it's like music one tone after another so we as a part of this nature should also be in an ordered manner.

2. Choose your closest wisely

Your health depends upon what you consume as such your growth depends on your friends and closest, so try to be in a healthy competitive environment so that you always look for something better and keep growing and always try to limit yourself from helping others in their personal matters no matter how close you are(personal experience cause when things go south you are the person to blame and that can break you completely).

3. Always keep your personal life personal

Never let anyone know what you are going through or the person you have a crush on or about your love partner cause the thing is that they can't solve your problem and a lot of times you will be treated differently even if they don't want to but it can happen unknowingly and having personal space in your life is a very important cause that is what gives you your personality and separate identity.

4. Look at yourself Naked in the mirror

This might seem odd advice but the first thing that you should love is yourself and not just your face that you look in the mirror and take care of it every day but your whole self, accept yourself the way you look and remember the feeling of that very moment and thoughts in your mind and ask your self is this your prime self or you can be even better, if by any chance you are having that thought then improve yourself then observe the change within you.

5. Try to learn how to earn money

The thing about money I love the most is that it always teaches something to whoever craves it. It gives you glimpses of the reality of this world and how this whole society is running around this very thing, In the process of earning you get to polish and compete with others who are sometimes skilled and more experienced than you you get your true self-evaluation in that real world and how much your skills are worth of which you are so proud of.

These are the things that will give you your true evaluation and this is not to get yourself in depression it is just that one should always know where he stands in this crowd of 9 billion soul.

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